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Re: Personal Development: Enthusiasm And Why It Seems To Die With Age

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Re: Personal Development: Enthusiasm And Why It Seems To Die With Age

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Re: Career Development: The Psychology Of Leadership

psychologist perth — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 09:53:22 -0000

Great write up! Thanks a lot for sharing, I absolutely agree with you and hope that our leaders can be as good as it gets.

Re: Personal Development Singapore: Confidence

Carmen — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 23:22:52 -0000

People can feel a lack of confidence when someone that they know gave them a direct feedback on their weaknesses like their behaviours or their way of communicating.

Re: Ask Stuart

Kurt — Sun, 02 Jan 2011 05:27:06 -0000

Hi stuart, do you have any project's for me to learn about NLP? Like school projects? I watch alot of video's and read alot, but i don't have the same feeling like when i was in school learning. I feel like i need a mentor, someone who can direct me. If you do have any free projects and want to help me out, i would appreciate it greatly.

Thanks

Re: Ask Stuart

Guilngan — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 20:47:33 -0000

Hi Stuart,

I have just completed the LFC1 which was conducted by you last week.It was very refreshing...During your talk, you mentioned that you were able to read 4 books a day, that's awesome!...how do you do it...Is there a technique/formulae to it.I would appreciate if you could share with me ur "secret",cos i love reading books too,but i hv only 1 problem,i take weeks to COMPLETED 1 book just to comprehen it.

Thanks& Regards
Guilngan

Re: Executive Coaching Singapore: Achieving More With Teams

Pramadakulkarni — Sat, 04 Dec 2010 01:19:48 -0000

Thanks Stuart ! I think we need this valuable guidance from you, time to time.

Re: Personal Development: Why You Should Learn To Model Others

flo — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 01:28:21 -0000

i find this really interesting. Are u doing it in jakarta?

Re: Personal Development: Why You Should Learn To Model Others

Stuart Tan — Sat, 27 Nov 2010 05:46:03 -0000

There are a variety of protocols involved in modeling and they will vary from area to area. You have three basic layers of modeling: the linguistic, the behavioral and the cognitive. These three areas will also vary in weightage depending on the nature of the modeling project, and therefore it could take a few intensive days up to a few months determining the model. Bowling, for instance, is more behavioral, and the skill will take less than a week to model. Singing is more complex because it is a combination of all three. Management skill gets even more complex than singing. Rapid reading is more cognitive than behavioral. Public speaking has various areas: speaking is more linguistic and behavioral; speech preparation is more linguistic and cognitive. And, the way you model public speaking is going to be very different from modeling, say karate.

The details of the modeling process are in the actual certification training that I conduct. Program details will be made available in mid December.

Re: Personal Development: Why You Should Learn To Model Others

flo — Sat, 27 Nov 2010 00:10:15 -0000

how to do the role modeling. I've read we have to observe how he breath, how he think, tonality of his voice. I mean how do we actually do it. And how long does it take to do one case?

Re: Personal Development Tips: Why It’s Good For Business

Jim Donovan — Sun, 21 Nov 2010 12:57:00 -0000

Great post, Stuart. If more companies realized the value of attitude on the "bottom line," they would be instituting personal development programs throughout the organization. I remember an experience 30 years ago in Korea. Not only were my shoes lined up but shined as well. There are the things that people remember, talk about to others and base future buying decisions on.

Here in the US, Neiman Marcus and Nordstroms come close in shoe service in particular and service overall. Why? They have the best trained employees. Duh!

Re: Ask Stuart

Stuart Tan — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 14:59:58 -0000

Hm I got it too, but I tested the second time around and it was fine.
In any case, you will receive the request for email confirmation, which does work fine. Hope to have you on board!

Re: Ask Stuart

Stuart Tan — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 14:33:00 -0000

Hey Charlie,
I totally sympathize with that. But, it also tells me that you might be seeking wealth for the wrong reasons. If you're using money for the benefit of others I think that's still fine. However, using this as a means to feel worthy or recognized is not really the best idea. I've never said that wealth wasn't good. I'm merely saying that balance is best. The problem is you won't know it until you get to the level of imbalance because balance presumes you know how to weigh. From your comment, I don't think you do. :) If your nephew is such a powerful influence in your life to make you feel bad, perhaps it's better to look at why your emotional state was negatively affected by a nephew. Imagine what it would be like when someone else even more important says the same thing to you. Buying a watch, a car, a new phone... these are awesome if you have the ability to manage and handle your finances and more importantly yourself. Wishing you had money and planning for it to happen are two different things altogether. Knowing WHY it's so important to you is another factor. You can go ahead and set your goals to earn more wealth. Under appropriate guidance and the right kind of skill, you will have more rather than complaining that you don't have it. However, you can go ahead and create wealth because of a negative or "away-from", and you'll feel empty and frustrated once you get there. Don't take my word for it - go do it, then once you've experienced it, you'll know what I'm talking about. Let your wealth grow from an inner strength. If you don't have any strengths, well it's about time for you to develop them.

Re: Ask Stuart

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Re: Principles Of Personal Transformation: Balance

Bright Michelle — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 11:47:03 -0000

@Stuart, your writing is wonderful to read. Balance of our inner dimensions is extremely important to outer manifestation of results and success. I always say, everyone has greatness within them, not everyone is willing to do the inner work necessary to cultivate that greatness.

Re: Ask Stuart

Charlie Chua — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 09:32:42 -0000

Dear Stuart, I do not dispute your point of view in fact I myself try to follow as much as possible to lead a balance life in health, family, knowledge, friendships, spirit, nature, love etc. etc. However, one should not look down on the value of wealth..... may I share with you my personal experience? Some time ago I was with my nephew while in Spore, he told me that a friend of his is having a watch sale and these are branded watches he is talking about. He then asked me if I may be interested to consider going there and maybe buying one at a special discount. Without thinking much and at the same time knowing that I dont have that type of money, I told him that I am not a watch collecter. Do you know what his answer to me was? Don't bluff, if you don't have money say so...how did I feel then? How I wish I had that kind of money. So, money does play a big role in one's life....if one really does not have it...too bad...look around, who gets the most attention, the one with wealth or the one with none? Who do one choose to be god father or godmother...some one with money or some one with none....now I realise why no one ever ask to be their God father, Ha, Ha! Best regards and may success with you. Charles Chua 012 2820823 (Malaysia)

Re: NLP Techniques: Submodalities and subjective measure

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Onsare2003 — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 14:13:33 -0000

Thanks Jeff Bezos for bringing out the difference between gifts we posses and choices we make, daily. How I pray that I will be able to make right choices - for when everything is said and done - I will be the product of every choice I'm making in this life.

Re: Personal Development: Why Is Learning So Important?

Stuart Tan — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 01:54:49 -0000

Personally I think it's a belief behind learning. Some people think that learning is difficult. My belief is learning is easy and holds the key to power as a means to achieve what you want. Not everyone is able to accept such a belief, and therefore fall back to ineffective old ways of solving problems, etc.

Re: Personal Development Singapore: Social Confidence

Stuart Tan — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 01:40:17 -0000

Yes, this is definitely a conflict. An issue that we have to resolve however, is where the introversion came from. Sometimes, through past experiences we develop beliefs that create this introversion, and many of such beliefs are deep rooted, and may require additional re-examination.